Most of it has to do with when I'm told no, as I'm driven to get/have what I want whether it's through making deals and bargaining, thought and strategy. When I was little, I was pretty compliant just because I knew it would mean I wouldn't get in trouble and would eventually end up getting what I wanted but I eventually wound up tired of being compliant and biding my time waiting for reward when I can work my way around it and instead get it immediately. A lot of it has to do with my addictions, really. When I'm told not to smoke or not to buy, it's a lot harder than it sounds so again I make deals, bargain, even do chores and off-end jobs around the house for money instead of taking no for an answer.